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Monday, August 02, 2010

Vipassana Meditation – Is it a cult?... aka Buddhism for Dummies

Last year as I was traveling through India, where I had an immediate feeling of spiritual homecoming, I had the good fortune to meet a fellow traveler who told me about a program of silent meditation called Vipassana. Now, I am the most skeptical person you will ever meet (except, perhaps, for my other half), but something about it appealed to me for whatever reason, and I got it in my head that I must find a way to attend this program. In the meanwhile I endured snide comments about joining a cult (mostly from you know who) and about how it sounds like the kind of brainwashing torture they do to POWs, and I was not able to find many very clear and concise explanations online in order to defend myself. So now that I have been through the program I feel the need not only to share this amazing experience with you but to clear the air about the important question – is it, in fact, a cult?

In a word – no. Here’s what it is: 2500 years ago a man by the name of Siddhartha Gautama, who was an Indian prince, renounced all his royal riches and went off to live the humble life of a poor man in search of enlightenment. At the time, and still, there were many methods of meditation available, most of which promised to give you inner peace and liberation, etc. Gautama tried a bunch of them and settled on the technique of Vipassana. Vipassana is not a religion – let’s be clear – it is a philosophy of life and a technique of meditation that allows you to try to achieve a physical sense of that philosophy. And the philosophy is simple; it espouses three things, and three things only: sila (morality), samadhi (focusing the mind/observing one’s self), and panna (wisdom). So the idea is that through meditation you get to the root of what is going on in your mind, particularly your cravings and aversions, by really paying attention to your body’s physical sensations, and you learn to view them with equanimity, thereby tempering your reactions in life so that instead of reacting with hatred, anger, and greed, you face the world with love and compassion. This leads to a sense of inner peace and profound happiness. Basically it is a very primitive form of cognitive behavioral therapy.

So when Gautama became enlightened, he became a buddha, which just means an enlightened person – he was thus one of many buddhas, although he is the one we now refer to as The Buddha. He then spent 45 years teaching this philosophy – which is referred to as the dhamma – to as many people as he could. Over the following 5 centuries it spread to many of the neighboring countries. Over time there was opposition from various people who were making money off of people’s greed and other vices, and the dhamma slowly disappeared, only preserved in a monastery in Burma, where it was faithfully practiced and taught in the way of the Buddha to a select group of Burmese people until early in the last century, when the technique started to grow and be spread, first back to India, the land of its origin, and then around the world.

What I find to be great about it, though, is that it is open to anyone and it doesn’t ask you to change your beliefs, renounce your god(s), or even accept any part of it that you don’t like. It doesn’t make you a Buddhist (for instance, I don’t believe in the cycle of reincarnation, and I don’t have to), it is a philosophy that applies to anyone of any background or religion, and it’s one that generates an attitude of compassion, humility and servitude, and really, who can argue with that?

Vipassana courses like the one I attended are now run in many countries all over the world. You are required to start with a ten-day course (which is completely free and funded solely by the donations of past students, because of the virtues of charity and renunciation fundamental to the technique), during which you observe complete silence. I thought this would be difficult, but in fact I found it refreshing, and when the ten days were up, I didn’t want to start talking again. The reasons for the silence are manifold, but perhaps most importantly, if you can talk, you start comparing your experiences, and you start judging and feeling like you aren’t making as much progress as you should be, and then the whole idea of equanimity is blown to pieces.

The other thing that appealed to me about the course was the teacher, SN Goenka, who teaches via DVDs and recorded audio. At first I found this a bit weird, but the fact is that he is a great speaker and to be honest he is the first person that I have heard speak in a reasonable way on the subject of Buddhism. For instance, one of my big pet peeves is that people think of Buddhism as one of the world’s major religions. It is not a religion. It is a philosophy of life. Buddhism doesn’t have any gods. The Buddha is a figure who represents the philosophy, and as such people pay their respects to him, but they don’t ask him for favors, as he has no special powers. However, because it is a philosophy rather than a religion, and people seem to need religion, it gets overlaid with the local beliefs, and thus in India and Sri Lanka, for example, the gods that “Buddhists” worship are actually Hindu gods. The funny thing is that most people who call themselves Buddhists don’t even realize this, and many don’t follow the basic tenets of Buddhism.

Buddhism has a set of guidelines, and these include not killing, not lying, not stealing, etc. However, these are quite often not followed or even entirely understood by people who call themselves Buddhists. When I was in Sri Lanka, a primarily Buddhist country, I tried to get to the root of this, and started with the obvious question: why do most of them eat meat (violating the no killing rule)? I got answers that varied from “well, technically the Muslims kill the animals” to “it’s not realistic to be a vegetarian” (um, hello, have you heard of India? It’s this big country right next door where hundreds of millions of people are vegetarian…).

My hosts, sensing my interest in learning more about Buddhism, actually arranged a meeting for me with a preeminent Buddhist scholar at the university in Colombo. Ah ha! I thought, now I will finally get an answer on this subject. Here is how this part of our conversation went:

Me: So, I see that in Buddhism you aren’t supposed to kill or harm any living being. I was wondering, then, how Buddhists reconcile that with the practice of eating meat.

Professor: You know, my ten year old son asked me that the other day… and I said, “shut up!”

Ok, not very impressive for someone who is purportedly an expert. But when I got to the Vipassana course, I found that Goenka-ji was the first person I had seen who actually acknowledges the Buddhist philosophy and lives by it (and to be clear, he is a Hindu, but since it’s a philosophy, he can practice both). One of the first things he pointed out was the hypocrisy that I have been trying to get to the bottom of on this vegetarian issue. And he went on to explain the rest of the philosophy in a very clear way and one that finally agreed with all that I had read of what Buddhism is theoretically supposed to be.

I liked this anecdote of his very much, and I paraphrase:

Jesus Christ was a very great man – when you look at how he died, tortured to death, and see that he had only love and compassion for those that killed him in their ignorance, there is no doubt that he was a very great man. A student came to me once and said “oh, Goenka-ji, I am a devotee of Jesus Christ.” “Oh, wonderful,” I said. “Yes, I am a devotee because I believe he was the son of God,” said the student. “What? You think he needs your testimonial? You think if enough people say he’s the son of God then he will get all puffed up and he really will become the son of God?? No!! He doesn’t need your testimonials. If you are truly a devotee of Jesus, then you follow his morality – you are humble and compassionate. Otherwise it’s a blind devotion, and what is that worth?”

Now, this is how I’ve always felt, and this blind devotion is one of the big reasons that organized religion always really turned me off. So I was personally really impressed by this man’s insight and willingness to say it like it is. And I also really like the fact that here is a philosophy of life that espouses all the things that I believe in without resorting to eternal punishment to scare people into being good. Shouldn’t we just be good people because it’s the right thing to do and we and everyone around us will be better off for it? I’ve always thought so, and here it turns out Vipassana has been saying that for two and a half millennia!

So anyway, if you’ve reached the end of this, you should be quite proud of yourself, because I’ve gone on for a long time, but I imagine that many of you are like I was just a couple of years ago, with only a vague idea of what Buddhism is or what the Buddha actually taught, and it’s such a wonderful message that I hope I can let you in on it without you having to read some boring book. And as for Vipassana, I would encourage you to try it out. After all, it doesn’t cost anything, so if you don’t like it, all you’ve lost is 10 days (and maybe a few pounds if you play your cards right). And I can almost guarantee that if you go in with an open mind and really try to practice the technique seriously, you will come out feeling happier and more peaceful and wont regret having given that time.

One final disclaimer – I don’t consider myself a Buddhist, nor do I claim to follow any religion. I am simply someone who believes in being a good person, serving others, not harming living beings (except maybe cockroaches – ick), and being as compassionate as I can. I have no interest in converting anyone to anything, but I’d be happy to discuss this further with anyone, or point you to additional resources and information. One good place to start learning about Buddhism is www.thebuddhist.com, and you can find information on Goenka’s Vipassana courses at www.dhamma.org. For the literary-minded, there is always Hermann Hesse’s Siddhartha as well, along with a plethora of books such as What the Buddha Taught, which I haven’t read yet but have been told is a good introduction to the subject.

Be happy!

Monday, January 19, 2009

Tips on traveling for cheap

Well, folks, Journeys Around the World is going to have one last spike in activity before quieting down for a while. As of this coming August, I am making a pretty giant career change, and as a result, I'll be trading in my backpack for a white coat. That's right, in a few months I'll begin my new path as a "non-traditional" (read "old") student at one lucky, and yet to be determined, US medical school.

In the meantime, however, I plan to put my last months of independence to good use. The itinerary has not been finalized yet, but it begins with two months in India and Nepal, and hopefully ends with riding a train back across Siberia. I'll be keeping you posted throughout my adventures, but since things will be quiet for the next month until my last major journey begins, I thought I'd write about something else today.

One of the questions that I get asked most often when people find out how much I travel is "how in the world can you afford to do that??" usually preceded by "you must be terribly rich." This is always a little bit awkward, and I do my best to explain that when I go backpacking, I generally spend less money in a month of traveling than I would in a month of living in New York City, or often even than I would spend in rent alone! If I sublet my apartment and work freelance jobs from internet cafes while I'm gone, I can almost break even. How is this possible, you ask? Here's my basic list of tips and tricks to travel super cheap.

1. Travel in the developing world. You get a much bigger bang for your buck: hostels are cheaper, food is cheaper, and the rules are more lax.

2. Be flexible and open minded. You can save a lot of money by staying in a hostel rather than a hotel, in a bunk bed in a dorm rather than a private room, or even in a campsite rather than a hostel. In some countries, you can even get away with "wild" camping for free.

2a. Bring your own sheet, towel and shower shoes. This lets you stay in very cheap places without worrying (too much) about the inevitable grime and germs. And you avoid charges in places that charge you for sheets and towels.

3. Be friendly and get to know the locals. They will point you to the best places to go, and often they'll give you a tour, a place to stay, or a bite to eat. They'll also be able to help protect you from local scams and overcharging that are inevitable wherever tourists are.

4. Learn the language. Or at least learn a little of it. The more you understand, the harder it is for people to cheat you. And it will open up options that are not open to the standard English-only tourist (plus you have the chance to meet people and learn all about the culture).

5. Cook your own food. Many hostels have kitchens you can use, and you can save lots of money by buying boxes of pasta and some vegetables and cooking your own dinner.

6. If that's not possible, eat local food. Tourist food is made for tourists, and so are the prices. If you want to eat cheap, eat what the locals eat, in the places they eat it. But be sure to look for popular places with lots of turnover, as that decreases the likelihood of your getting sick from the food.

7. Spend time, not money. Being in a hurry to get a million places in a short amount of time is the biggest possible suck on your money. Plan a trip where you hit fewer places, and waste some time waiting for the bus instead of getting a private driver. In some places it's even relatively safe to hitchhike, which is, of course, the cheapest and slowest form of transport. These are also good ways to get to know locals.

8. Get really good at bargaining. In most developing countries (and some developed) you can bargain for just about everything, even when it seems like you can't. Find out ahead of time, or from other backpackers, what the local custom is, and then haggle like your life depends on it. Many times the prices of tours, souvenirs, even hotel rooms are actually a third to a half of the original asking price. And don't feel guilty about this - your aim is to get a fair price, not to take advantage of anyone.

9. Key into the backpacker network. Stay in hostels and talk to other travelers. Find out where they stayed, what they did, and how much they paid for it. Check the thorntree forum, and make good use of it. It's an excellent resource.

10. Use the Lonely Planet guidebooks. No guidebook is perfect, but I have tried pretty much all the series of guide books out there, and in general the Lonely Planet books are the best. They have by far the best maps of any of the guides, and they are geared towards budget travelers taking public transportation (though I hear this is changing in some of the books).

11. Hoard frequent flyer miles. Always get credit for miles you've flown, and try to fly on the same airline or its partners. Get a credit card that gives you miles, and pay all your bills with it. Do offers online that give you miles. And then use all those miles to get free tickets to other countries.

12. Learn to sleep on buses and trains. This is a tough one, but if you can manage to do it, you can not only save a night of hostel charges, but also a day of travel time when you are going long distance.

13. Hook up with other like-minded travelers. Nothing saves money like sharing with another person. Find someone on your same budget with similar tolerance, and share costs.

and last but not least....

14. Don't be scared! The biggest hindrance to all of these points is the overwhelming fear that strangers are going to do bad things to you, the food will make you sick, you'll get lost or get eaten by insects, you'll be uncomfortable, or something terrible will happen to you. I'm not going to tell you it won't, but the chances of that happening are so much slimmer than the chances of you having an amazing, life-changing adventure, that I'd say it's worth a shot.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Audience Participation

"Journeys" is on a bit of a hiatus at the moment as I suffer through a summer of horrible classes in New York City. It's great to be back home and see everyone, but my schedule is starting to really wear me down. Mainly what's getting me through all of the rote memorization of useless facts are my thoughts of where I'll get to go next year, during my last year in Europe (for now).

...And that's where you come in. I am holding an open contest for suggestions on where I should go next year. There are two separate categories - inside Europe and outside of Europe - and whoever makes the most unique suggestion *that I actually use* will get a souvenir from that destination that I will personally pick out and send to you (or deliver in person if I happen to be in your area).

If you've been following my blog, you know I've already seen the usual stuff and I'm looking for off-the-beaten-path kinds of quirky suggestions - i.e. don't bother suggesting the Eiffel Tower or the Colosseum. If you know of off-the-wall festivals or great cheese caves in the middle of nowhere, bring them on.

To get you started, here's a map of where I've been already:








Enter by leaving your suggestion in the comments box below, or on my wall on Facebook, or by sending an email to me at kim at kimberlystanford dot com. Don't forget to leave some kind of contact information so I can get in touch with you if you win. You can enter as many times as you like. Entries to be judged by me, with no particular criteria except my own opinions. Results will be posted here at the end of the summer.

Looking forward to your creative suggestions!!

Adventure map for 2009...